As a therapist who treats sexual dysfunction in your case premature ejaculation) I use a technique to quickly put you into a dream-like state. In that relaxed place we explore orgasm control & edging together. You are gradually & sensually brought to a release in a controlled way. Note that unlike some other vids in this genre there is not a long relaxation segment. The transition to a deeper state is less than a minute. Most of the vid is in dreamy slow motion action with a voice-over my voice).